I Asked! She Answered! What Happens When Too Much Is Too Much For An Author?

11209372_998425863514645_2357865428716480350_nI will admit it, I was frazzled trying to promote my books. Don’t get me wrong, I love promotion but there didn’t seem to be enough hours and my life was in pieces. I finally gave up and knew I needed help. I acknowledged I couldn’t do it all. I was not superwoman.

In case you didn’t know, I am the author of the Fuchsia Minnesota Cozy Mystery Series involving a fictional town in Minnesota, and an over-the-top Granny and her friends. I also write a weekly column which I also have turned into a book and…..I have a children series that also tugs on the hearts of adults because it reminds them of the feelings they might have left buried for many years. And…I must clean my house occasionally and visit my grandchildren and children. You notice my grandchildren are always mentioned before my children these days. That should tell you something.

For an author there is always another book or two or three being worked on. I found I was spinning out of control trying to keep up with letting people know I was out there and continuing on in my writing. I was burning out.

My publishing company, Cozy Cat Press, does help with some of the promotion, but as with most writers these days, the bulk of promotion is up to them.

With my Something About Nothing book and my children’s books, I tried to do it all myself at first. Big mistake. As I was reaching the bottom of the mountain and feeling myself sinking into the nearby sea I knew I had to do something different. That something different came in the way of Annie Sarac and her business The Editing Pen. She brought me up the mountain and back to the top so I could continue what I love doing best–writing.

I hired Annie to edit my Pageflex Persona [document: PRS0000039_00069]Something About Nothing book. I realized that I didn’t know everything I thought I did about writing. She polished up the manuscript and gave me some suggestions, of which I ignored and that was about the book cover. She said it didn’t tell people anything about the heart and soul of the book. Well friends, I learned a valuable lesson–always listen to my editor. I just changed the cover. I also used Annie to polish my Granny Snows A Sneak before I sent it to my publisher. She took care of the this, and the that’s, and the and’s I am so famous for.

I asked if she would be interested in doing some promotion work for me. I thought she would be the perfect person with her business to know where I needed to be in the media. Annie has not disappointed me. I cannot tell you the relief I felt having to be away from my computer a few days knowing the promotion was taken care of.

Why am I writing this? I want to thank Annie for the great job she is doing for me. And I want to promote her and her business. I have never met her personally but I feel as if I know her.  She has a great background of credentials and she is starting her business from scratch, working her way back into the media world. She believed in me and I believe in her.

I also want to make the point, as authors, we are occasionally expected to take care of everything ourselves when it comes to promoting us. I find it hard to brag about me (I know I may not give that impression). I also find it hard to asking for help because I want to be superwoman.

I also know what it is like to be new and starting out and trying to build a business. I would not have had my computer business that I retired from recently, or my writing career, if others would not have taken a chance on someone new. Bruce Lorenz did that for me with computers, Tim Engstrom and The Albert Lea Tribune did that for me with my column, and Cozy Cat Press did that for me with writing.  We become so ingrained in seniority and experience that we forget we were once inexperienced in our business and the only way we could move ahead was if someone believed in giving us a chance.

I asked, she answered and it is a good connection. If you are feeling frazzled and need help, give The Editing Pen a try. She tailor makes plans to what works for you.

No man is an island and neither is a woman. By reaching out for help you may find blessings coming into your life you didn’t know were possible. Thank you Annie of The Editing Pen.11048645_996381253719106_4106219762973711992_o

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I’m Questioning You!

questioningIt’s time to have a little fun. I haven’t given anything away lately. So lets play with a question. I ask a question today and you all can have fun answering. In the morning I will pick a random or a few random winners. I have 5 audiobooks of Granny Hooks A Crook to giveaway and I will also give away one Granny Forks a Fugitive choice of paperback or e-book. If you don’t do audiobooks and you want to gift it to someone in your life that is allowed. So have some fun with this question. And make sure to ask others to come on over and join the fun.

For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Am I A Sap for Apps

SOMETHING ABOUT NOTHING by Julie Seedorf- Published in Albert Lea Tribune week of August 10

How many steps did you take today? People counting their steps have invaded my life recently. Everywhere I turn someone is counting steps. I feel left out, or as if I am missing something because I am not counting my steps.

It doesn’t matter which child’s house I visit, someone is checking their wrist to see how many steps they have logged so far. Even the grandkids are stepping it up. While on vacation with friends, my friends were checking to see how many steps they have logged. I felt the odd man out because I couldn’t look at my wrist to gage how many steps I had taken that day.

Do I want to purchase one of those fancy gadgets that help me log my steps and tell me how well I sleep? I know I need to lose weight, up my exercise and watch my eating. I also realize I have a hard time shutting down my creativity or my responsibility and relaxing. I seem to be more stressed if I don’t have something planned that I must do. Then I am stressed because I have thought of so much to do.

It never used to be that way. My husband points this out continually that I never had a problem being lazy and reading a book all day in my earlier years. And I didn’t. Perhaps it was easier when I was tired and needed to rest from following toddlers around all day.

I decided to revise my day. Instead of getting up, having my coffee and going straight to work I would start my day with meditation, prayer time, exercise and then get to my workday of writing. I didn’t realize how hard that was going to be.

It made me anxious to change my routine. It is hard to take time right after I got up for the day for prayer and exercise. In my home environment it was hard to change.  I concluded this was crazy.

In a different environment it was easy to get up and take a walk when I had a beautiful walking path and nature to entice me in the morning. I could meditate and pray at the same time while I walked in the stillness of the morning, without car noises, and people activity.

My friends and family also recommended another app to help me change. This app tracks calories and eating habits. This app was free so I decided to try it.

The app calculates how much weight you want to lose, how long it will take you, and how many calories you should eat each day. My calorie count was 1,200 calories. It informed me on this regimen I would lose 1 pound a week. Only a pound a week?

The first day I ate wisely or at least I thought I did. I logged my oatmeal, my low-cal lunch, my healthy snacks and my healthy dinner. I was 495 calories over. I hardly ate anything, and I was over!

I decided the calorie count was still lower than what I normally ate. It was a start. For me, it was hard to remember to log what I ate, but the app kept reminding me.

I don’t care how many steps I take in a day. It would stress me out knowing I didn’t take as many as I should. I have a feeling I don’t want an app that counts calories. I would stress over going over the calorie count.

There is also an app to remind me to be happy. I forget to check that too. Looking at my phone if I spent my mornings checking all the apps that are supposed to save me time, remind me to do things, and give me a more peaceful life, I might not get to live that life because I am too busy learning how to have a life from my apps.

Those apps are appetizing and I am always downloading a new one because I am sure it will improve my life.

We’ll see how I do on my pray, exercise, write journey. I have friends joining me to support one another on our journey to balance. We are doing it manually. I must admit if it doesn’t work the old-fashioned way I am sure we can find an app for that.