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About Author Julie Seedorf

As human beings, we are always a work in progress. From birth to death we live, hurt, laugh, cry, feel, and with all of those emotions we grow as people, as family members, and as friends. I'm a dreamer and feel blessed to have the opportunity in my writing to pass those dreams on to others. I believe you are never too old to dream and to turn those dreams into a creative endeavor.” I live in rural Minnesota and am a wife, mother, and grandmother. Throughout my life I have had many careers or should I say opportunities at jobs where I have learned different skills such as working as a waitress, nursing home activities person, office manager, and finally a computer repair person eventually owning her own computer sales and repair business. Add my volunteer activities such as Sunday School Teacher and SADD advisor and more and it's been a full life. I never forgot my love of writing and quit my computer business in 2012 after signing a contract with Cozy Cat Press for Granny Hooks A Crook, the first book in my Fuchsia, Minnesota Series. I currentlyntly have written nine cozy mysteries, three children’s books, participated in three group anthologies or mysteries, and write three blogs about various subjects.

Small Town Celebrations Have Changed!

We had our annual celebration in my community this weekend. It was called Kernal’s Day. Many people worked very hard to make this happen this year. I wasn’t one of them. I would like to clarify before I write the rest of my opinion that I am not criticising what this committee pulled off this year. I give them (the committee) credit that try to pull off a celebration with few volunteers and many chiefs, meaning community members (including me) that try and tell them what to do.

The problem I have is my memories. I have memories of Kernal’s Day in the past. I have been attending Kernals Day for as long as my 62 years will allow me to remember. The Kernal’s Day I remember served Sweet Corn and Barbequed Chicken at the park after the parade. The parade consisted of floats that were decorated so it made them special. They had themes. If there were cars and trucks in the parade they had streamers or they were decorated too. They were advertising their business but they made an effort to make it interesting to look at. It wasn’t just a candy throwing machine. Many of the these floats were not made by businesses but were sponsored by businesses. In fact when we had kiddie parades many of the kids tryied to copy the floats by making floats with chicken wire and kleenexes stuffed in the chicken wire. Somewhere I have photos. When I find them I will post them.

Of course at the park we had a carnival and we had many, many food stands not just stands put out by the local churches and businesses. At night there was a variety show brought in from out of town. People would go to the grandstand and there would be a lot of entertainment from musicians to magicians. It would feature people not from the area but shows that we could not find locally. We would sit in the grandstand and watch the fireworks.

Bingo was another favorite. At the Bingo stand instead of money there were prizes to pick from. Rows and rows of prizes. If we could win that tv or toaster oven we would play and play.

Kernal’s Day was a time for kids to hang out, teens to hang out and adults to hang out. The city was buzzing with people and traffic. Those are my memories of what Kernal’s Day was like. People would come home for Kernal’s Day and meet and greet old friends.

I was missing all that this Kernal’s Day. There was no corn, there was no Barbeque Chicken after the parade. I did not even find a vendor that sold greasy corn dogs. They had a stand that had mini corn dogs but it wasn’t the same. I was able to get a greasy Corn Dog to satisfy my taste at Relay For Life this year.

I also missed the prizes while playing Bingo. Money is nice but there is something about looking at those prizes on the table in anticipation of winning that makes you want to keep playing all day.

I missed the pretty floats and the bands in the parade. Our local band was outstanding. Although we are rural and the guys (grandsons) loved the farm machinery a few bows might have made a difference.

Those are the things I missed. I didn’t volunteer to help. I didn’t express my opinion because I didn’t have the energy to help. Neither did a lot of people volunteer to help. Those that did did an excellent joy of representing our community in a time where it is hard to make things happen with a celebration.

We don’t have a canning factory anymore so we have no corn. It is hard to get bands to come to a parade anymore. Kids are busy and it costs money to bring in good bands. Small businesses don’t have the money to do this anymore. We can’t get carnivals anymore. They aren’t reliable on coming to small towns. When they do they cost quite a bit of money and I am not sure the rides always look safe.

The group that organized this Kernal’s Day did a good job with what they had to work with. A local bank puts on a free lunch to kick off the festivities. Our Depot Museum hosted events as well. The Car Show on main street was a success and it was fun watching the parade of old cars and showing our grandchildren the cars we had as teenagers. They decided that made us Vintage. There was so much candy thrown at the parade. The kids enjoyed it. Yes our celebration has changed. Perhaps it is time we embraced that change.

I imagine there would have been strife and controversy if the name Kernal’s Day got changed to something else but maybe it is time for us to embrace that change also. It is also a time for us to support those that give of their time to have a celebration. I can criticize but as long as I am not willing to put money or work where my mouth is I feel that I do not have the right to do that. I do know the frustrated feeling of putting my heart and soul into a project and not being appreciated for what we have contributed. Thank you Kernal’s Day committee.

I do have dreams about a new Kernal’s Day called something else. We should have a giant food fest along with a big arts in the park with juried artists. We should add to the car theme like they did this year with showing American Graffitti. We should have a contest amoung businesses and whoever wants to enter for the best themed float around a Car Show theme since we have so many cars and trucks in the parade anyway. Let outside vendors come in with food, sponsor food contests and also have the local food tents. If we had many visitors the competition in food would bring in business for those local stands. People come to eat and taste food. That is just my dream. I am a dreamer. I am idea person. I am a

English: A hand-dipped corn dog on a stick, se...

English: A hand-dipped corn dog on a stick, served from a traveling food vendor trailer at Rochesterfest in Rochester, Minnesota (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

background person these days. Just sayin.

Just sayin “Thank You.”

 

it’s Parade Day!

It’s Parade Day in my community. It is now 7:55 a.m. The Parade is at 5:30 p.m.

This parade will travel past my house. I love the fact that I don’t have to travel down the blocks to find a spot where we can view the parade. Actually the best part of having a parade go right past your house is the fact that the bathroom is near. No more hunting for bathrooms for the Grandkids during the parade.

What surprises me is that when I peek out my front window this early morning there are already chairs and blankets lined up and down the street. The chairs put there by parade goers that want the best seat and are afraid there won’t be room. When I see those chairs the anxiety starts to rise in my heart.

Do I need to put chairs out this early? Will I have a place to sit in my own front yard? Will my grandchildren have to fight for a seat on my lawn? Where are my chairs? I better get dressed, comb my hair and rush out to reserve the curb.

Is that rational train of thought? Absolutely no! Will I do that? Possibly.

What is it about us that causes us to be afraid there will be no room for us. What is there about us that the anxiety (chairs on the lawn at 7:00 a.m) amps up our adrenaline and makes us follow suit? What will happen if I don’t have front row seaat to a parade that is mostly full of cars, trucks and tractors?

We do that everywhere. Remember the long lines at Best Buy and Walmart for days at the start of the Christmas shopping season waiting for the Black Friday deals? What would happen if everyone would chill out and just arrive at the time the stores opened or a few hours before. The lines would probably be the same. You possibly could get the same spot because everyone arrived 1 hour instead of days before. It is the shopping frenzy, the scare tactic of not getting the good deal and our own inside anxiety that erupts into insane actions.

Back to the subject of parades. Parades have changed. In my youth Parades were made up of elaborate floats with many colors something like the Rosebowl Parade but not made of flowers. They were beautiful. For a little girl it was exciting to see the girls in formals on the beautiful floats. There were many bands so it was easy to tap your toes. It was a different era but one that everyone should experience in their life.

Oh no, it is 7:06. I better get my chairs out. I better rope off my lawn and put a sign that says,”My grandkids only.” After all I am sure there is not enough candy going to be thrown in front of my home for anyone but my grandkids. They only got 4 big bags last year. It was because of all the other kids that got their lawn chairs on my lawn first. I know there are at least 3 more bags of candy to be had if I patrol this year. Oh, no another chair has been put on the lawn. I’ve got to get going.

How Did I Accumulate All This Broken Junk Jewelry?

Again, it is amazing what you find in the piles of stuff in your basement. I had the idea at one time that any jewelry I picked from a garage sale or inherited from dead relatives that were broken  could be fixed. If it couldn’t be fixed it would be a beautiful addition to a bird house or painting or whatever my mind could dream up.

I tossed all these little trinkets in a box in the basement. When I found it again the little trinkets were woven around one another. Do you suppose old junk jewelry has a life of its own and grows and weaves around each other something like a snake? That must have been what happened because I certainly wouldn’t have done that.

I picked up the bits and pieces and sorted them. After I sorted them I thought “What am I doing to put these in? Why am I keeping these? The creative part of keeping junk hasn’t happened yet.” I kept on sorting and sorting and sorting. I found some really neat stuff.

Some pieces would make good earrings. Some pieces would make a good play piece for my grandchildren. Some pieces could be re-strung. I got things sorted and decided what I needed to get rid of.

I picked up all the pieces that I sorted  and put them neatly back in the box together. We will see if they grow around each other. Yes, you guessed it. Those old junky pieces are going back into the pile in my basement. I am not ready to give up the creative ideas I have with the old pieces of junk. I got rid of zero pieces. What can I say. Do I say not as I do?